"Do you think about your fans a lot?"
Of course, other than me, there are more artist think about their fans or treat them better. There are variety. So yes I try to think about my fans a lot of time. We have to think about each other. I'm a singer. But I never want to take it for granted.
If I don't do what I have to do as a singer, it's the singer's fault for sure. From an artist point of view, it's like.. it's wrong. If fans do that, it's also wrong. We just have to understand each other and get along well.
To maintain a good relationship, it won't work if it's only just one sided. Same concept applies for friends, lovers and spouse. Same goes with teacher and students relationship too. Of course with artist and fans relationship, if it's only just one sided, there's absolutely no way it can be normal and stable.
As much as you guys cheer for me, I have to show that I'm doing well. That's just how the way it is. You guys cheer so much for me, but if the singer is lazy, it won't work either. If the singer is working hard but the fans isn't in the good mood, then the singer will lose it strength. So we cheer for each other hard. Then for me, to make you guys cheer harder for me, I'll just show the good side of me. Just like this.
"Artist are human too, you shouldn't blame yourself.
Because you are human, you tend to blame yourself. As an artist, if you live by only listening to good things, you can never improve. You guys always tell me to say a lot of good things to myself but I do hear a lot of good things from you guys. Do you guys agree? Honestly, I... whenever I make a mistake or show the bad side of me, during times like that, hearing something like that instead of being criticised...criticism, being criticised, it's a bit.... what I prefer from fans is more of like feedbacks.
Apart from those, I only listen to good things. Of course there are people who says weird and strange things, and say things that don't exist and say lof ot unpleasant things. I don't really care about that because it's not true anyway. I don't need to explain those things. If I just ignore, it will eventually go away.
But aside from that, there are times I said a lot of good things to myself too. But then, when I heard something from other people about my personality being really good, I feel like I would become arrogant. Then I would blame myself. If I make a mistake, I would blame myself. That way, I would reflect on myself. I tend to do that.
"You just want to hear the good things."
It's because you're having a hard time these days. When you're having a hard time, you won't feel like you want to hear those things. Hang in there! When you have become stable as a person, whatever bad things you've listened to you'll endure it well. You'd gain strength and forget it with something else. Same goes to TREASURE MAKER too.
When you listened to something bad and got too influenced by it, you'll think "why I'm so weak mentally", "why am I this kind of person", "Am I such an ugly person?" Don't think like that. If you think you cannot afford to listen to such words right now, I don't think you'll fall in too deep. You know what I mean right? Instead "I guess I'm having a hard time these days", "I think I'm tired and not in good conditions", "I'm not this kind of person though", I think it won't be difficult if you think that way.
"I'll try to think of it that way."
I'm sure it is different for everyone, but I think that way is good. May the universe treat you guys a little better too and be happy always, TREASURE MAKER 💙
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